kelly, thanks soooo much for all the great info. i will check into all your suggestions. i didn't give much info on her (or me) in this message. but if you would like to read the other posts i made they are on the cancer forum. i think you can pull up all my posts on this forum if you go into one of mine and hit all achievers messages. this will give you a little more info about this situation. any more info you have after reading these is greatly appreciated. i have read lots on these cancers but haven't found any that have been successful with specifics listed yet. thanks achiever!!