Re: It's Okay to be Gay.

Dear superhero, I'm quite aware that gay men are perfectly capable of marrying a woman and having a family!

My ex-husband is gay. He was in the closet and had a horrible struggle with himself because he couldn't admit it. I never knew it until later until after he had a couple of affairs with men. I wish he was able to just be honest with himself and it would have spared a lot of heartache for him and his family. I'm sure to this day he still won't actually admit it.

I've seen this same pattern in other men who are in the closet too. The act out a lot, and can be mean to people. It's hell to them and others because they are living a lie. Gay men who have no problem with their identity seem more at peace with themselves.

Is this why you are acting like a troublemaker on the board? Who knows, you have to be honest with yourself. But I just notice you seem to enjoy picking fights and stirring up strife on all of the forums, and "making people wrong". That's pretty obvious!