I don't subscribe to the "we're best friends" theory of matchmaking, but beyond that...you're question is so right on the money with what I used to do. My honey hated the fact that I would openly, without any hesitation blurt out "look at those tits!" whenever I saw a nice rack. For some reason, in person or watching a movie or TV, if I noticed a pair of pert jugs I would have to comment on them. She got pissed. She was so hurt by something that I was too stupid at the time to realize that I made a "cold turkey" change of that behavior. Women don't like their guys salivating over other women (no matter how much you say you don't care...trust me...you care). He needs to quit it and now. If he won't change that for you, you're with the wrong dude. This is the least of your concerns in a relationship.