hi ya,cheers for the advice!thts really heplful!i gotta tell you i have very low confidence,and self esteem,and as i say to her,the main reason i worry about it,is becuase I dont feel im special comapard to ne 1,and tht she can do better,i do trust her,and i know i can,but i still have the feelings tht she can and will find sum 1 betta thn me!jus b4 i got wiv her,i had just split from a 2 year relationship,where i fort i would neva do,loves a very funny thing!