Re: please help, abuse survivor advice needed (VERY long)

Long term relationships are more "stale" for survivors? Seems to what I read in your forum letter, is that (please bear with me, as I am only a guy) you are getting sum good head, serviced by a dude you are attracted to, and are pissed off at his actions. Survivor? Come on woman...countless people thru out our history has gone thru more turmoil than this guy at every age, if the guy has lost or messed up limbs, water on the brain, or sees monkeys jumping around the room, well fine, if you want, help him out. If not, the dumb ass is playing poor me, poor-poor me, and you are there to suck it up. You, very honestly, take out any kind of physical "feeling" you may have with this dude, COMPLETELY, then kick back, and determine if this dude is a man of your dreams, and well worth the effort to figure out. An affair? Only I wish, it'd be sooo simple. Could I too explain away screwing other chicks for this survivor excuse? Doubt it. Get your head straight, you got a daddy, brother, uncle, or very trusted guy friend to ask advise from? that is....when you are 100% honest of how this guy makes you wanna squirm in your pants?.....and willing to express that...Think about it young lady, and don't be selfish in your thinking.....you some day may have babies. Give them a daddy that won't have a mommy questioning their daddies ways.. Tweet