I did the same thing to my Husband because I had committment issues. Everytime we got close i dumped him. We finally broke up for good and he moved on about five months later I contacted him and we have been together ever since. I was raised in a strict family background and didn't date much before him so she might have other issues but she sounds identical to me. If it is any encouragement to you we are very happy now and are going on 4 years of marriage, I am glad he stuck it out and helped me work through my fear of committment.