Re: what to do about committing please read

dear so afraid

I have just started a new relationship with someone i have been friends with for a long while. He works and lives miles away and i only see him every two months or so. I have also suffered bad relationships and i am scared as hell embarking on another.(read my previous mail)

The only way we can both cope with it, (he finds it harder than me), is to just believe that what we have when we see each other is good and nuturing and forfilling. If thats not enough for either of us, then we will stray away from one another. That may be sad and we would lose something really special, so we both decide to stick to what we have. I think you should believe your boyfriend and try to relax, and know that if you can hold on through this, there's every chance you will have a stronger relationship when you finally get to be together again.

I wish you luck






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