Thanks. Having a scheduled time to sit down and talk seems like a great idea.
I certainly see relationships and marriage as a continual process that requires active participation and planning. Figuring out how to do it is the problem. I typically rely on passive measures to solve issues but I am working to articulate my feelings and concerns more. I am still not great at it--I no the value ten times over and now that it eliminates a lot of stress and misunderstanding but I still rarely talk inless I am asked to. having a weekly meeting time would help me a lot.
I have however, discussed my aprehension with him and although he acknowledges that it will take adjustment he is not as concerned as I am.
I am uncertain why I am so worried--or is it just nervous excitement?
thanks again,
melody