Hi I hope you don't mind me saying this cos I mean it in the nicest way, but when I read your post I had to have a little chuckle, well a big one really, it was so honest. I don't know what forums you have tried and I don't know what your problems are. However you seem to have had alot of responces here, I have to congradulate you on your title, cos I thought that made me look, out of curiosity and I am sure that Shelly will beable to help you some. I have been useing this web site for a good while before I found this forum and this is were I have found the most help and although it is taking time I am begining to notice some improvements. Good luck...Thanks for making me smile today...Moonie