What an encouraging story! If you find any answers to the lipstick question (or any other cosmetic), please let us know!
I've done this, but it's not the best: Set coconut oil in hot water to melt, mix with melted pure beeswax, add beetroot powder (I've tried other spices and they didn't mix at all, too gritty), add peppermint or wintergreen drops for a nice taste. It is yummy and boosts my spirit!