i'm sorry you're feeling this way. a support group would do a lot of good for you.
in regards to the vaginitis, it is probably die-off, which is a good thing. but then again it doesn't make sense when it comes to the acid-alkaline principles. try posting your question in the Ask Moreless forum. he may be of help to you. also, the acid/alkaline forum might have some people that might know why.