healing your answer to this question lies in the last sentence of the statements that were Posted by Dazie..I believe it said...
Go to your Heart for the answer, it will never lie to you.
This is a very powerful statement considering the first rule to this game of life is: Don't believe anything you read, hear, see, feel or experience. Question it with all your heart..if you find it to be true..it is..nothing else matters.
Do not let your mind get in the way...remember if you hear a loud voice it is probably your ego mind trying to distract you...listen to the soft loving voice that comes from your heart...if it feels good go with it.