I said that Rick60's experience was no coincidence because of many times in my own life I would be at a certain place at a certain time when someone with my particular "bend on life" was needed. Example: one time I was traveling a lonely country road at 3:00am (coming home from work) and slowed down to make a turn. A dark car with a U-haul trailer was out of gas at that spot. I would probably not seen it if I was not turning. In the car was a man and a woman with a 10 month old baby. They had been sitting there for 4 hours and the baby was out of milk, both parents were smokers and out of cigarettes. If they had run out of gas 1/2 mile in either direction, I would not have seen them. Noone will ever convince me that the whole thing was coincidence. The rest of the story is a private matter and I have never told anyone, so I will stop here.