Okay, just one more before I put you back on ignore.
"the question again is how does a person do what paul said about praying without ceasing?"
You don't put an "Amen" on your prayers. I don't mean you can never say amen, but you keep an open dialog with God throughout the day and even night if you are awake. Sometimes it may happen in your dreams. This does not mean you are praying every second. God is always in your thoughts so you talk to Him throughout the day because you know He is there. He knows every thought you have. This is just my opinion. Hope you didn't mind my comments considering what you and Ed think of me.