I don't know if you will consider this a good enough difference, but at least God allowed them to consider raising the children with exposure to christianity, so they could make up their own minds. Now, am I 100% happy with that answer?...no, but it was more than their parents got from them. So I did my part. The part that God laid on my heart to do. And yes, I contribute that to 'sharing' and not 'telling'.