Thank you so much for your reply. How you've explained those thoughts are exactly how she'd explain them to me. They are completely irrational and do not make any sense. I will try to talk to her but sadly she's almost a completely different person it seems. Your story is a huge help though to see that we are not alone. And yes- It seems that I've seen so many women/husbands/boyfriends give the same descriptions of their experiences VERBATIM. It's terrible people don't know about these effects!