if we can live the dictum of giving to each their own due (give to Caesar---) and realize that the stage of emotional maturity determines our personal, our neighbor's and our societies requirements, we can more easily find the power to mentally and physically allow that which might not be to our choosing or seems unfair or destructive, knowing that the most important life lesson and challenge is in learning to carry our own burden, without directed at others, blaming anger, remorse or self pity, and in learning how to let, rather than force, unhealthy destructive self oriented desire based manipulation go, we (and eventually society) evolve into living mature compassion, continually mirroring all the effective learning stages from the infantile self absorption to adult other oriented living, in our allowance of an environment and a process that has only the good for all programed into it's natural functioning design.