Demodex on Eyes need some advice

I am losing hair on my scalp, eyebrows, and eyelashes for 3 years. I have itchy scaly scalp with lots of dandruff.

I put coconut oil on my eyes and eyelashes for 3 nights. The results in the morning were little white specs at the edge of my eyelashes. Also, I had more eye goobies. Does this mean I have demodex? What is the easiest way to tell without going to a doctor? Tweet