Ask him whether he would rather have a wet juicy pussy that can't get enough sex, and a woman who is so hot he can't resist having multiple ogasms, or if he wants a windy dry cool pussy that farts and feels too worn out and tired to have sex most of the time. If the former then he is going to have to develop sensual intuition, try some tenderness, use eye contact, synchronized breathing, sophisticated sensual conversation, and be more gentle. Some men are so brainwashed by p 0 r n to wield their weenies like weapons they are clueless what really gives a woman pleasure or turn them on. I am not opposed to having p 0 r n star sex if it can be accomplished with genuine pleasure and without any lube. But the audacity of men who want to spit on pussy, sex it dry, and then spit on it again irks me. And these insensitive clods will also treat a woman like something is wrong with her if she doesn't fake pleasure too. I hope your lover has the patience and determination to wait until you are really juicy, and he isn't relying on saliva or lube to get in you.