Somewhere along the lines you have been poisoned. Drugs ARE chemical poisons and have deleterious affects on the body. They actually DESTROY the intestines. Been there.
Your hormones are messed up. The only way that can happen is if you have been poisoned in some way or another. Menopause isn't supposed to create the problems you have.
Suggestions: Do a thorough colon cleanse. Get on an anti-parasitic as soon as your bowels are eliminting at least once a day. Stay on it. Start liver flushing. Do both until you are cleaned out.
Eat dulse for the iodine, take B1 from Standard Process, have some chiropractor adjustments, drink only distilled water, eat only good foods, juice, take some form of concentrated foods that have all the minerals and vitamins in them. Lots of MLM companies have this sort of thing. I know, I don't like MLM, either, but most of their products are good.
Stay away from the poisons in food and everywhere else as much as possible.
Minerals are especially important, because if you don't have enough of those, especially magnesium, you're not going to get better. Eat only Celtic Sea Salt or Himalayan salt for minerals. www.saltworks.us
What you take OUT that is making you sick and disrupting your whole body's homeostasis is as important as getting the good nutrients back in there.
Been there and done it. It takes quite a while and a lot of dedication to helping your body get back there. Big job for a college student. You're young. Now is the time to do it.
Google "The Paradigm Shift In Health Care". Get the book and let it change your life with what's in it. If you don't have your health, you don't have anything. No job, no material thing is as important as getting your health back and keeping it.