It is very hard in many cases to overcome feeling of being betrayed, of loosing our trust in people who we trusted the most.On the bright note, you learned your tough lesson and in your future you will never dothat sexual stuff tawards your children as you know all those assotioations related to the molestation. You also can help others by detecting the wrong things in their lifes. Most people are blind. Very Often,mothers can not tell her daughter is molested by the father/step-father for many years. Your eyes are open.