I think there are some people who might use us because of our condition thinking we are lonely and or desperate but there are some genuinely nice big hearted people out there who look past the odor and really want to be with us. Come to think about my own situation probably close to 20 guys have asked me out a lot of them were actually really good guys like cleaning up my blood with their shirt kind of guys but in the end it was my own shallowness/scaredness or obligations that left me alone and bitter. Im still waiting for the right one :)