Re: how can you know if a narcissist ex still wants you?

Does it feel good when this man uses you and then rejects you? Probably not. So........if this is a pattern of behavior in this relationship, then it might be a very good idea to examine the dynamics.

His texting you is his frantic attempt to hold on to his supply, which you've made the very wise choice to NOT be, anymore. There is only one way to sever a relationship with someone like this and that is to go "No Contact." That means to BLOCK his number from your Cell Phone , block his emails, block EVERYTHING that you can to disallow contact from him. Don't talk to his family. Don't talk to "mutual" friends that know you both. "No Contact" is the first and hardest step to end a bad relationship.

It doesn't matter what he's feeling or thinking - chances are, he's only feeling the thrill of the hunt and rage when you won't cooperate as you had in the past. You know what he wants as you've already typed it. What you "should" do is up to you, alone. But, one way to determine what is best for you is to think about how wretched he makes you feel. The "good times" are not worth being made to feel that wretched...............not EVER.

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