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I am very sorry for your loss and current situation. To make the decision to surrender one's child to adoption is a courageous and painful choice, but it can turn out to be a blessing for all parties involved: bio-parent(s), adoptive parent(s), and (most importantly) the precious child.

Having typed that, I would strongly encourage you to contact a reputable adoption agency to help place an innocent soul in the "right" hands, so to speak. A reputable adoption agency requires prospective adoptive parents to meet standards (sometimes, it seems unreasonable) and they are thoroughly examined BEFORE they are given custody of a child. The birth parent(s) typically is involved in the approval process so that they'll know that their child will be taken care of on every level.

I would caution you against posting a general plea at ANY online forum for someone to take your child. Of course, this is your situation and you'll do whatever you must, but it might be helpful to remember that anyone online can present themselves to be whomever and whatever they want to project.

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