I know everyone and I have tried reasoning with my dad until I am blue in the face. My dad is old school. Technially I have no legal rights to make her medical decisions. At this point, we both think it's only a matter of time before she dies, maybe six months at best. The caner is in multiple parts of her body and she is too weak to have chemo - chemo which they said wouldn't cure her in the long run. The only thing I can think of doing at this point is to find my own doctor, for my own health problems, which I have found to go to and see what he says to do. He is an MD but practicies holistic medicine, so there is a small chance my dad may listen to him I'm going to call today and try and get in asap. My reasoning with dad is going to be, at this point, what have we got to lose by listening to him? Nothing. If we don't try what he suggests, she'll die eventually anyway. If we do try it, perhaps something may help, if nothing more than to give her a better quality of life, with what she does have left. All I know is, honestly if I ever develop cancer, i don't know if I could ever have chemo and radiation, after what I have seen my mom go through.