Re: how can I get the love of my life back

You're post is confusing. You say you've been with this guy on and off for 3 months. Yet, you said you had a baby. I take it that given the timeline, the guy in question is not the father of your baby?

You pleaded with his father to bail him out of jail. It sounds like his father was reluctant to do so. Why was that? Has this guy been in trouble with the law before? Or was his crime so bad that his father didn't want to risk bailing him out? Was his father worried about him skipping out after he was bailed out of jail? If the answer is "yes" to any --- or all --- of these questions, then it is understandable as to why his father didn't want to bail him out of jail.

What seems to come across here is that the guy is conflicted about getting involved with you long term---for whatever reasons. Only you would have an idea as to what those reasons are. If the baby isn't his, perhaps he doesn't feel ready for parenthood. Or maybe he is irresponsible. I don't know.

Either way, given what I could decipher from your post, I would say that it is best for you to move on. Right now, your baby comes first and foremost in your life.

That said, if the baby is his, make sure that he is paying child support to you. If it isn't his, make sure that the baby's father is paying child support to you.

Whatever you do, your baby's wants and needs always come first.