You can't be the same big guy that made me laugh yesterday!!! You have too much to do right now rather than be in despair. You have to get yourself in shape to show up your "ex"!!!! You know, whenever I am down, exercise does help to lift your spirits. Even a short walk and deep breathing can make you feel better. Are you single? If so, get a pet.
Oh, and I have no plans of being in a nursing home anytime soon. I have too much living to do!