Bartholin abcess

Hi, I slowly learnt how to get them to pop! (although everyones different!) I was getting a bartholin abcess EVERY month since i had my fouth child 2 years ago! Until July last year, they just stopped....but the cyst would still grow slightly in size now and then! But on Saturday my cyst began to grow and grow to the size of a small orange, and although it was slightly painful it wasnt as bad as before so thought nothing of it, until it started to sting slightly! So I started doing what i'd do before to see if it was infected and would pop!?! I sit on a hot water bottle, and when it cools a little that i cant feel it really hot i refill it with VERY HOT water again and again!!! Then after a day on and off of the hot water bottle i sit on something frozen and VERY cold! (tonight it was frozen sausages..Lol :oP) and BOOM...its gone! Hasnt always worked straight away, but certainly worth ago ladys, because i know how much pain your all going through!!! Maybe its the sudden change in temprature for me HOT to COLD??? This abcess was different though, not as painful, was like dirty water when it popped and there was no foul smell as before?!? Was supposed to see a specialist today aswell about having it removed, but couldnt make it as the kids were ill :o( Tweet