Re: Im in love with my gay friend. Am i getting played?

At 19, she is just starting out being on her own. That said, my advice still stands. It appears that she is confused about her sexua| preference.

With her being 19 and you being 25, a 6 year age difference is more pronounced than if she were 29 and you were 35. A 29 year old would be more mature and have more life experience. A 19 year old and a 25 year old are too far apart when it comes to maturity levels. Of course, there are exceptions to this rule. However, it's clear that she needs to grow up and figure out if she is gay, straight or bi.

As I said before, it's best to just move on. Take the time to meet and date other women closer to your own age. Tweet