Re: Coffee enema = prostate inflammation?

One thing you are dealing with is retrograde ejaculation.  (See the link below for the definition and also much more information.)  It also sounds as if you are dealing with an enlarged/growing prostate which can be diagnosed by a urologist doing a prostate massage and a PSA (prostate specific antigen) test - which is another way of diagnosing prostate cancer though it isn't perfect by any means. 

The major issue that you could be facing is prostate cancer which is generally a slow growing tumor.  I'm a 20 year prostate cancer survivor who refused prostate removal and instead took a "wait and see" approach.  I ate loads of raw garlic (raw garlic kills prostate cancer in the lab) and my PSA went from an original level of 3.7 down to .7 and I continue at that level to this day.  If I don't eat my raw garlic, my PSA goes back up over 1.4, so I keep either ingesting the garlic or a good supplement such as Kyolic.

You need a professional diagnosis ASAP.

http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/retrograde-ejaculation/DS00913

Retrograde ejaculation

Retrograde ejaculation occurs when semen enters the bladder instead of emerging through the penis during orgasm. Although you still reach sexual cllmax, you may ejaculate very little or no semen. This is called a dry orgasm. Retrograde ejaculation isn't harmful, but it can cause male infertility.

Retrograde ejaculation can be caused by medications, health conditions or surgeries that affect the nerves or muscles that control the bladder opening. If retrograde ejaculation is caused by a drug you're taking, stopping the drug may be an effective treatment. For retrograde ejaculation due to a health condition or as a result of surgery, treatment with drugs may restore normal ejaculation and fertility. But treatment for retrograde ejaculation is generally only needed to restore fertility.