here is the worst part. we have seen it time and again in this country. they pick the most heinous and vile and cruel behavior against the most innocent and helpless victim and then use that as an excuse to do something even worse to everyone. the state doesnt own jack, let alone its citizens. and in particular, parents should be free to raise their child in accordance with how they see fit. its none of the state's business. thats what cultures and communities and social mores and religions(social clubs) and shunning people are all about. its not a legal matter. and it certainly is no business of the state.