Re: am i a gold digger wife and husband a cheat?

You ask what others think, well you've got it!

I feel very, very sad for your daughter. She has a mother that puts partying and her own selfish interests before her child. As parents, we do need to have outside interests. However, you seem to forget one important thing---your child comes first and foremost. Writing about your partying behavior also tells me that you need to grow up.

If you and your husband didn't have a child, I would say "Hey, to each his own." When you put a child in the picture, things change.

At some point, your child will be old enough to figure out what is going on between her parents. Parents, for good or for bad, set the example for their children. Do you really think that you're both setting a good example for her?