I wanted a response to my current post, not reminders of ranting vents I've posted over the years.
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And that's what you did get---a response. No one is claiming to know all the details of your relationship. However, when giving you advice, posters only have to go on what you've written.
As for your anonymous posts, it was you who outed yourself. When you posted anonymously, I didn't call you by your full screen-name. You also mentioned what happened in your relationship using both your name and your anonymous number.
Still---I do wish you the best and urge you to take to heart what was written in the first two posts of this thread.