Re: Few Questions About oleander
I think that there is a good chance that oleander might help, as it tends to go after abnormal cells and ONLY abnormal cells, helping them die natural programmed cell death and preventing them from multiplying. As far as the best sites, there are two. One is sutherlandiaopc.com where the Sutherlandia OPC line of oleander based supplements are sold and the other is utopiasilver.com which sells the Rose Laurel OPC Plus (made at the same pharmaceutical manufacturing facility as the Sutherlandia line) pure oleander extract in capsule version.
Personally, I think I would opt for the liquid SOPC extract and administer it in part sublingually and in part rectally via a rectal syringe, working your way up slowy from very small initial amounts. You can swallow the sublingual dose after holding it under your tongue a few minutes, but you may find that swallowed oleander may somewhat difficult for your digestive system to tolerate - as a minority of users have found. I and many others have little or no problems with taking oleander orally but some do. If that is the case, you can largely bypass the digestive system with sublingual and rectal administration (swallowing only what you are able to tolerate). Plus, sublingual and rectal administration result in excellent absorption directly into the blood stream.
If I were you I would consider a few other items. One would be colloidal silver (begin with a couple of ounces a day for a few days and then cut back a bit) and probiotics to help get rid of possible bad microbacteria and help establish a good balance of intestinal flora. Another would be Jon Barron's Blood Support Tonic (you can find it at BaselineNutritionals) and yet another would be Essiac Tea - both of which should help cleanse and purify the blood.
Here's another suggestion: Check with Unyquity in the Healing Naturally forum and see what she advises. I have the greatest respect for her herbal knowledge and products and have seen her work wonders when all else has apparently failed.
I hope that helps.