Cougar, it's good to get off your chest..I would be like a missile without a destination if I had to endure watching all this too. I am sure it's difficult in your situation to try to bring this to the attention of your family and the dr.
My husband told his cardio once what I've shared about the statin drugs and what have you and his dr said to him "well that's why I have an office and she doesn't"...smart a@@!