Grace, you are trying so hard to help and I know you mean well. Vektek and I are ok. She knows I love her....this happens about once a year it seems. She has nothing against you...she is just careful to what she exposes herself to.
She and I just have uncrossable barrier(s), but she knows that she can email me anytime, if she wanted to. Too many issues came about at one sitting and I think things got overwhelmed.