I see I've made this quite obscure. Sorry. Tired. Let me just say, he went with a small pain, as it were, (but persistent to where he could not sleep) that we intended to verify was not life-threatening, and then come home to deal with ourselves, and do natural things for, and he ended up falling, while in hospital care. (...) Maybe the blessing is, he now has time to HAVE TO devote to him. His body, after all, is the vessel for a lot of good. But he's always worked it like it's a beast of burden. I's guessing that rings true in various ways for a lot of us.