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Re: you're thinking way too hard about this.
No, I am not her. Well, I do have nieces - 2 of them. You are right, they were not true friends because I couldn't have the money to do xyz. I agree about holding off on clubs until I have money. I am on tons of social networking sites, when it came to meeting people off there, I had more bad luck than good. I was like I had better luck meeting people in real life. I have met people offline who turned out to be bad people plus it only lasted a week or if I was lucky a month.
It was short friendships, their true colors started to show really quick and I picked up on it so fast. People I met offline just wanted nookie they used friendships as a way to get laid which I felt was wrong to do that. They all told me they never wanted to be my friend, they said I hated you. One told me I just felt sorry for you whatever that means didn't explain it to me. The only real relationship I got from offline was meeting my boyfriend off of few years ago. Everybody else lied to me, tried to ruin me, made me feel bad as a person, abused me verbally etc.
Social networking sites, I basically said I was disappointed in people because of the mistreatment and most of them were just plain sorry as human beings. That is where my attitude/feelings are coming from. I keep making friends who are just mean and mistreat me over and over again. I want that cycle to stop. I went out of my way to be their friend and they disregarded me yet got the nerve to want me to do them a favor or whatever it is they wanted.