Re: Too close - need suggestions

I appreciate your suggestions, Blue Rose. I saw the administrator, today, and she asked me what the Evil One had said and I answered that she had said nothing positive and remained very vague. I took this route because the only reason that the EO would have said the thibgs that she did to me was that she was judging me by her own yardstick: she expected me to act the same way that she does and spread misery in the same manner that she does.

If the EO chooses to start another tirade, I intend to shut her down right at the gate. "I don't want to hear it," should suffice. The EO has no power to harm me in any way and I can't allow myself to react to her drama/trauma.

The administrator is very, very non-confrontational and easy-going, and she believes that the EO really has the power to make her life and job even more miserable. So, I am there for the administrator, but I am OUT of the drama-loop! I had an incredible tension headache after the encounter, yesterday, and I don't need it.

Thank you SO much for your sensible suggestions! Tweet