tough situation.

all of straight parents shudder to think of our kid's turning out gay, but as you've experienced, tough luck on this one. how can the father not know being that she's doing her girlfriend in the house? ??????? maybe that's why he's an ex, huh? and as a parent, why are you taking the lead from your under-aged daughter on when and where you the parent say anything to anyone about any damn topic you want? act like the mom and tell her dad what's going on. or give her an exact time and date when she has to be a grown-up and face the consequences. that's what parents do...the dictate the pace of the family. this abnormal dynamic just points out the need for guidance and structure. everybody needs to know everything...isn't that what the homosexual community has been preaching to us straights forever? yes, i believe so. tell your ex, come down hard on the blatent disrespect your lesbian daughter is practicing under his roof, and draw some lines in the sand. don't get rolled over by your kid for the sake of wanting to be "cool" or accomodating. she obviously is going to go down this path with or without your blessing. stand up for your original principles and your ex's. here's what i 100% guarantee you, sis: if my daughter was giving head to another girl, it wouldn't be in a house i own. that's a guarantee.