tough call. would the mccainster stay in a sexless marriage? hmmmmmm...sex is really important in a marriage. but you throw in the word "love" which intensifies the bond. i might if i loved her. let's put it this way, this is how i could cum to grips (pardon the pun) with your query. if my wife had a medical concern that forced the sex to be painful or damaging to her health, i most definately would stay in the marriage. i am not going to penalize her for something she cannot help. not this guy. i'm a man of honor and if i have to hold a vibrator over her clit until she cllmaxes, for the duration of our marriage...so be it. but, but, but...if she is a bitchy, spiteful witch who clenches up to punish me for whatever womanly reason...that might lead me to answer "no". so, depending on why there isn't sex in marriage. that's my final answer.