It is a blessing to know people who can stand up for their values. I can't help but think about K.Crowther the way she talked about the little grand-mothers. I just love many little grand-mothers on this forum: I think they are diligent, bright and sensitive. They are made of self comforted tears as well as generosity. Their power is always addressing things with clarity and deep knowledge gathered from a lifetime of taking care of life, gardens and babies (and the too many chores that go with it all...)
Cannot blame those without much experience and just trying to be funny or joining in somehow with us. The mind is their most precious treasure cause the heart has not opened yet. Does not always come with time only, but there might be some hope!