Shroom, get her into a LLMD (Lyme Literate Medical Doctor) fast. If you go to http://www.lymenet.org,
you sign up and then you can request a LLMD or ND in her area. And as for how can the medical community have missed this? Don't even get me started! I have suffered needlessly for the last 14 years, because doctor's I saw in CA refused to treat me for Lyme, because they said there was no Lyme in CA, despite me having a positive test. She needs to get help asap and I would suggest natural as well as regular meds. Have her look into the Cowden Protocol, Teasel, Rife, etc. I am in her same situation, but I found a wonderful LLND in San Deigo that I will be treating with. Good luck to you both. BTW, have you been tested for Lyme yourself? Also, when testing for Lyme, you should use Igenex Labs. http://www.igenex.com
Most every other lab out there has a 40-60% false negative fail rate. And any really good LLMD will diagnose not just by what a test says or doesn't say, but by a person's symptoms.