Well I guess its the iud or bipolar. Im the husband, Ive been beat bit cheated on and she demands controll. Today I picked up my kids from school. I came to my parents home. I am really dreading going home. my wife has had the iud I guess 4 years. 2006 I guess the change happened. She went from loving mommy to satin. Weve been together 20 years married 13, never broken up once. Im never invited along. I cant tell you how hard this is and my girls want mommy. devorce I dont know??? this is my old email ill find out my dads and get back any way to help someone else I stumbled on this site Im not sure what all to research I know my life is absolute HELL my 7 and 11 yo girls deserve better. like I said earlier Im expecting a fight when Iget home. Thanks for listening. a seemenling perfect marriage is at its end possibly from the iud icant say