I am very sorry for what you are going through. With regard to your partner, he may be coming down with strep throat. It sounds like he has pretty much the same symptoms that you had. Colloidal silver is a much safer and effective method to use when dealing with infections, even serious ones.
With regard to testing positive for HIV, an extract from the oleander plant has been shown to be 100% effective in reversing HIV symptoms. Below are two articles for your information.