Re: $50 is cheap for an 8" boyfriend. better order that one.
Very few women actually reach climax through vaginal penetration alone, so whether its a penis or dildo, for the majority of women its not going to do the job anyway.
I agree, there is a lot involved in cllmax. Some women have trouble reaching cllmax through clitoral stimulation due to tissue overgrowth covering the clitoris. This can inhibit direct stimulation.
G-spot stimulation can be a problem if the uterus has tilted, dropped or been removed.
Then there is oxytocin, which is what actually allows the cllmax. If there is insufficient oxytocin generated this can inhibit cllmax. Too much will give you an cllmax that will send you through the roof. This is true with men as well. The oxytocin stimulates the uterine contractions of the female cllmax and the seminal vesicle contractions of the male cllmax. Anyway there are several ways to raise oxytocin levels. Touch itself, especially by someone you are attracted to will help raise oxytocin. Being with someone you do not like can have the opposite effect. But the primary method of raising oxytocin is through nipple stimulation. In fact some women can achieve cllmax through nipple stimulation alone. A second method is to delay cllmax as long as possible. If you get near cllmax stop and let the feeling decline a little. Then start again and when you get close to cllmax pause again. The more you do this the more it will increase your oxytocin levels. It can be a little frustrating but when you finally end up having the most powerful cllmax you have ever had you will find it is worth it. There are a few herbs that can elevate oxytocin such as fresh shepherd's purse and cotton root bark (the strongest), but they can be a little difficult to obtain.
Another factor is serotonin levels. People low on serotonin are extremely quick to cllmax as where those with high levels of serotonin have an extremely hard time trying to achieve cllmax. This is why people on anti-depressants known as selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs), such as Prozac, have such a hard time reaching cllmax. Some supplements such as 5-hydroxytryptophan (5-HTP) also raise serotonin and can therefore can also inhibit cllmax.