you've got a freak on your hands, sweetheart. guys who want their honey hump'n another guy have mental problems and your thinking that this is twisted...hey, i'm with you! never allow your gut instinct to be trumped by others (even loved ones) just to keep the peace. decent guys cherish their girlfriends and wives, protecting and caring for them...not sharing them with others like a doobie passed around at a frat party. stand up for your principles, you've got 'em i can tell, and explain that you're not a trampy piece 'o ass that can be pawned off on another just so he can get off in yet another way. normal sex is a good thing. you're first thought on the subject was correct, bravo! finally a woman who listens to her conscience...it's there for a reason you know...