I do see what your trying to say, and I agree we are all responsible for our own reality, but I don't believe that this was all chosen/pre-determined before birth on this earth/plain of existance/reality. I do not separate body,mind and spirit, because they are one, and connected to, and part of universal energy. Without our minds and bodies, we would not be consious of our soul/spirit/life energy, therefore it is not possible to separate them. Our bodies and minds have only the limitations that our beliefs put on them. All is possible once those beliefs are gone.