well, bellpep...this is why men are not real men these days.

Guys need to act like real men and take care of their women if they want to be considered a "keeper". I don't believe men and women are equal in relationships because generally speaking, guys do most of the harm. Men need to cherish and protect their relationships in demonstrative fashion. Call me old-fashioned, but today's young men are weak and embarassing when it comes to dealing with relationship responsibility. A real man takes control of negative events, fortifies the relationship with strength, and helps lead both out of turmoil. That's what a real man does, Bellpep. Of course she has responsibility, but I hear from her post that he was the one evicted. He allowed the events to spiral out of control. He, then, must make it right. If he allows life to control him, that's a guy I don't want any part of...and I have instructed her as such. Women go to their mothers, guys scavenge around for brothers and friends. That's a protective action women take when they've been done wrong. Who did Elin call when Tiger did her wrong? Her mother. Who flew in from Sweden to comfort her? Her mother. That's how it works...has been for centuries. Accept the rules of the game, play them to win the game. Don't try and change how people traditionally are prone to act. Women want strength, ambition tamed with reality, and good judgment in their man...this loser doesn't give any of those.