Saying that means you missed her whole point. I need to follow MY yeses. I had personal, powerful experiences with Jesus when I wasn't even aware of who he really was. I would no sooner give those up than give up breathing. Why would you suggest that I follow your yes's. I said I am not religeous. But, I don't think saying I am a Christian brands me, anymore than saying I'm a chiropractor. I use lots of word to describe things that are closest to what is avaiable and what I choose. If some people who are also Christians act or believe somewhat differently than I do, that's okay with me.Loving somebody makes you aware of how much you can love and it tends to expand your ability to love yourself. It increases your power, it doesn't take away from it.